I'd leave that option to include updates and when it has completed, you will be prompted at some time they are ready to download.
Go to Windows Update and change your settings to Check for but let me choose then click on Important and uncheck the box to deselect all of them and just install a few at a time, after vetting them by right clicking on those you don't want and select Hide.
Click on OK then go into Optional and uncheck the box to deselect all of those while you install the important ones and then you can vet those when done.
I usually Ethernet connect for updates so that I get max download speed.